Since we were very young, we’ve been told that true beauty comes from within, but sometimes we don’t know what inner beauty is, after all, we can’t see it. Here are 3 things that can help you see and understand inner beauty.
从我们很小的时候起，就被告知真正的美来自内心，但有时我们不知道什么是内在美，毕竟我们看不见它。这里有三件事可以帮助你看到和理解内在美。
Inner beauty is in your words.
内在美在你的话语中。
True beauty comes from within and often comes out through our words. I’ve known several people who were pretty on the outside but when they carelessly repeated nasty, unkind words, they suddenly looked like pigs wearing gold rings! Just think about whether you have seen evidence of this with the people around you. Which ones seem beautiful or ugly because of their words?
真正的美来自内心，通常通过我们的话语而显现出来。我认识几个外表漂亮的人，但是当他们漫不经心地重复肮脏、不友好的话时，他们突然看起来像戴着金戒指的猪!想想你是否和你周围的人看到过这方面的证据。哪一个因为他们的话而看起来漂亮或丑陋？
Inner beauty is in the little everyday choices you make.
内在美在于你每天做的小选择。
When we are faced with small, daily choices such as whether to tell a white lie to avoid trouble, whether to avoid the new girl/boy because no one else seems to like her, or whether to sneak a peek(偷看) at a classmate’s test, our inner beauty(or lack thereof) comes out. Good choices are fueled by good character — and that’s real inner beauty. While no one is perfect, inner beauty will show itself in the repeated choices a person makes.
当我们面临小的日常选择时，比如是否撒谎以避免麻烦，是否因为没有人喜欢她而避开新来的女孩/男孩，或者是否偷偷看一眼同学的测试，我们的内在美就出来了。好的选择是由好的性格推动的 -- 这是真正的内在美。虽然没有人是完美的，但内在美会在一个人反复做出的选择中显现出来。
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When someone makes a mistake and it affects you, how do you respond? True beauty comes from within when someone is polite, understanding, and forgiving. Someone without inner beauty will be angry, accusing, and inflexible. And when you are the one who make a mistake, how do you respond? Do you blame the people around you, or do you accept it and move on, giving yourself grace and room to grow? A person with inner beauty doesn’t see mistakes as threats; she/he sees them as a regular part of life and a chance to learn.
当有人犯了一个错误并且它影响了你，你会如何回应？当一个人有礼貌、理解和宽容时，真正的美就来自内心。没有内在美的人会生气、指责和僵化。当你犯了一个错误，你会如何回应？你是责怪你周围的人，还是接受它并继续前进，给自己优雅和成长的空间？拥有内在美的人不会将错误视为威胁; 她/他将错误视为生活的常规部分和学习的机会。
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