In the days of yore, we watched a show on TV called “Kids Say the Darndest Things”. The premise (前提) of the show was to highlight a child’s perspective on life. The short words offered by the kids gave us a ton of laughs. What we didn’t know at that time, but understand now is that we were learning life lessons from the children! Here are something we can learn from our kids.
在过去的日子里,我们在电视上看一个节目,叫做“孩子说最可怕的事情”。这个节目的前提是突出一个孩子对生活的看法。孩子们简短的话语逗得我们哈哈大笑。我们当时不知道,但现在明白的是,我们正在向孩子们学习人生的教训!以下是我们可以从孩子身上学到的东西。
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Kids wear their feelings on their sleeves. When they’re happy, they laugh. If they are sad, they cry. As adults, we tend to hold back our emotions more than we realize. While not always appropriate depending on the situation, allowing our emotions to escape as adults is very helpful in maintaining stable mental health. This can also promote better physical health. So, don’t be afraid of your emotions. Let your feelings stretch their wings and run through the rain!
孩子们把自己的感情表露无遗。当他们高兴的时候,他们会笑。如果他们伤心,他们就会哭。作为成年人,我们往往比我们意识到的更容易压抑自己的情绪。虽然不总是根据情况而定,但作为成年人,让我们的情绪逃离对保持稳定的心理健康非常有帮助。这也可以促进身体健康。所以,不要害怕你的情绪。让你的感情展开翅膀,在雨中奔跑吧!
2. Slow Down And Smell All The Flowers.
2.慢下来,闻闻所有的花香。
We hustle (快速行走) through our adult lives, running to and fro. Working, caring for a home and family, preparing meals, doing housework, and handling all the other adult responsibilities. Our kids stop to look at everything, and it tends to annoy us. What if we stopped, too? Take a breath, bend down, and smell that flower. You deserve it!
在我们的成年生活中,我们忙忙碌碌,跑来跑去。工作,照顾家庭,做饭,做家务,以及处理所有其他成年人的责任。我们的孩子会停下来看所有的东西,这往往会惹恼我们。如果我们也停止呢?深呼吸,弯下腰,闻一闻那朵花。这是你应得的!
3. Making New Friends Isn’t As Hard As We Make It.
3.结交新朋友并不像我们做的那么难。
Adults have difficulty making new friends most days. Kids make it look so easy. On the first day of Kindergarten, I helped my daughter get in the correct classroom line. There were kids her age and size, and she was in her glory! The next day, she took off running as soon as she saw all her new friends and got in the line. While I stayed back with a group of other parents, none of us were making any attempt at becoming friends. The lesson we should have learned is that people are people, and we should open up and say hello!
大多数时候,成年人很难交到新朋友。孩子们让这看起来很容易。上幼儿园的第一天,我帮女儿排好了去教室的队。有很多孩子和她年龄相仿,身形也和她一样,而她正处于鼎盛时期!第二天,她一看到她所有的新朋友就开始跑过去,并加入了队伍。当我和一群其他的父母呆在一起时,我们没有一个人试图成为朋友。我们应该吸取的教训是,人就是人,我们应该敞开心扉,打招呼!
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